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The Power of the Tongue: A Call to Wise and Gracious Speech

"When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal. Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one's life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With the tongue, we praise our Lord and Father, and with it, we curse human beings, who have been made in God's likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be." - James 3:3-10

In the book of James, we are confronted with the power and potential destructiveness of our tongues. James illustrates his point, comparing the tongue to a bit that controls a horse, a rudder that steers a ship, and a spark that can set a great forest ablaze. Our words have the power to shape our lives and the lives of those around us.

The tongue, though small, holds immense influence. It can build up or tear down, bring life or cause destruction. It has the power to bless and to curse. James reminds us that it is inconsistent and contradictory to use our tongues to praise God and then use them to speak ill of others who are made in His likeness. We are called to be mindful of the words we speak, recognizing the impact they can have on others.

Taming our tongues is a feat that will never be accomplished without the guidance of the Holy Spirit. There must be a continual reliance and surrender as we allow Him to guide our speech and transform our hearts. Through prayer and seeking God's wisdom, we can learn to speak with grace, love, and truth. We can choose to use our words to encourage, uplift, and bring healing to those around us.

We must guard against participating in gossip, slander, and negative speech. We should strive to be people of integrity, refusing to engage in conversations that tear others down or spread lies. Instead, let us use our words to build bridges, reconcile relationships, and speak life into the lives of others. The importance of speaking truth and refusing to participate in gossip is magnified when we consider our accountability before God. As believers, we are called to live lives that honor and reflect God's character. God is a God of truth, and He desires His children to walk in truth as well. In Proverbs 6:16-19, it is clear that God detests a lying tongue and a heart that devises wicked schemes. When we engage in gossip or spread falsehoods, we are not only harming others but also dishonoring God. We will one day stand before Him and give an account of our words and actions. It is vital that we choose to speak truth, even when it is difficult or uncomfortable. Let us remember that our words have eternal significance, and strive to use them in a way that brings glory to God and builds up others.

Today, let us reflect on the power of our tongues. May we be mindful of the words we speak and the responsibility we carry before God. Let us choose to seek God’s guidance and wisdom in the conversations we partake in. May our words be a reflection of His love, grace, and truth, bringing light and blessing to a world in need.

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Aug 16, 2023

Amen,we luv ya and you are correct The Tongue is very powerful!!


Aug 15, 2023

Such a great word!

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